What you mean

"You will change" - said a boy to a girl and the reply he got was "Don't judge me!". Some of you might think the girl did the right thing by saying her part while others will find it weird. The true meaning of what the boy said was whatever he used to do with her will change, not that he was judging her. He actually meant he will miss all the things they did together.
Many a times it happens that people don't understand and in all this, no one is to blame. But the person who says it is often considered crude. Don't be craven in expressing what you feel but before putting it into words, think about how will you say it. Think about the bad side and then cancel out all the negativity when you state something. The person in-front of you means a lot to you, so giving it a proper thought will only make things better between the two of you. Life is too short to be serious but yes, sometimes in life we do have to because it is important and anything done right will always boost up your thoughts about the person you love since they mean the world to you. So,whenever you put something forward, be sure of WHAT YOU MEAN.
(The boy and the girl are in a relationship ;))